The cats and I are in our new house with my husband. The cats are adjusting, but are quite pouty about not being able to sleep with me. I try to snuggle them as often as possible, though my husband claims Dr. Quinn is being neglected. I think that Dr. Quinn is significantly more self sufficient than the others since he was a street cat at one time. He knows that I love him, keep him fed, and pet him as often as I am home. That's enough for him.
Bella has been mine since she was 6 weeks old and Obi was only 2 weeks when I got her. I'm pretty sure Obi thinks I'm her mother. The girls need more attention because they are simply used to it. Frankly, I'm pretty sure my husband is snuggling them when I'm not home, so I'm not terribly worried.